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No matter what age, we’re all just boys in adult bodies. That was just the outer mechanics that were rusty. Inside, I felt unmoved, unaffected by what to most people would have felt like a crushing rejection. When she finished her food and got up to leave, I told my student I would be right back, followed her outside, and talked to her. I felt calm, confident, masculine, and powerful. I wasn’t as mechanically perfect as I would have been if I’d warmed up with a few approaches first, but none of that mattered. What mattered was that she felt my masculine. I felt my masculine. And I got her number, and eventually enjoyed many dates and amazing experiences together before I had to leave Russia. Now, through my Red Knight discoveries, I was decoding the Why. I was realising that once you understand the Why, all the Whats happen effortlessly and naturally. It’s the difference between learning to play a piano piece solely by muscle memory, and mastering the musical theory behind it beforehand. 
The Long and Winding Road
If you only learn a piece by muscle memory without any other training in music theory, then don’t play the tune in a while, you get rusty, and it takes you a good amount of time before you can play it well again. You wouldn’t want to let anyone hear you play it until you had retrained your muscle memory. If you learned and understood the musical theory behind the piece you were playing, however, you would never worry about losing some of the mechanics, because you would be able to improvise and fill in the missing gaps yourself. You would never be afraid of forgetting precisely which key you needed to press at which time, because you would understand the flow of the piece, and could play what needed to be played to make it sound beautiful regardless. Instead of hiding behind a skillset that simulates masculinity, I want you to feel your masculinity deeply within you. Once you feel that, everything you do will be attractive, naturally and effortlessly. It’s time to discover your birthright. It’s time to awaken your inner Red Knight. Well, what do you want me to do? Never been in a fight. No, but that’s a good thing. How much can you know about yourself, if you’ve never been in a fight? I don’t wanna die without any scars. Whoa, wait, this is crazy. Against The World
A longing for challenge? As adult men, we feel that we’ve been robbed of something sacred, but we don’t know what. Something is terribly wrong, we feel it deep inside, but we can’t pinpoint it, we can’t define it. We thought that things would feel different when we got to age twenty, but we felt exactly the same. We concluded that we would become men when we got to age thirty, but we felt no different then either. But there are real men out there, aren’t there? You feel like a weak boy when you come across them, don’t you? You both look like adults, but the way he looks at you, the way he is, you know that he’s the real deal. Did you miss the party? Why the hell did some guys catch the man train yet you, and millions of other men in the world, still feel the same insecure sense of boyishness that you’ve always felt? Because you have been robbed. Your invitation to the party was snatched away from you, and there was nothing you could have done about it. You never had your Rite Of Passage. The elder men of the tribe never took you away from the women and initiated you into the world of men. You were never tested. You never overcame your fears. You never died a boy. Forgive And Forget
You were never reborn a man. And now you feel lost. You feel it, don’t you? That deep yearning for initiation, for enrolment, for a rite of passage. This is why so many men join the military. This is the attraction of street gangs. This is the fascination with pickup and seduction gurus. We’re all looking for an elder, a warrior, a group of strong masculine figures that can make us men. Like Tyler Durden said in Fight Club, We’re a generation of men raised by women. So what are we to do? Start a fight club and beat each other to a pulp after work each night? I have been reduced to tears after one too many rejections. I have had my heart broken and cried myself to sleep in a fetal position. I have been ridiculed and humiliated, laughed at, mocked, and insulted. I have had all my false beliefs, illusions, and fabricated mental stories burned away by the cold, naked flame of reality. When I awoke my inner Red Knight I felt a huge reservoir of power release within me. My interactions with women, with people in general, were suddenly effortless. It was as though all the different internal audio tracks playing simultaneously at different tempos had suddenly harmonised perfectly. I started walking around the world with a confidence I had never known before. It felt like the boy had died and the man had been born anew. Without knowing it, I had initiated myself through a sacred masculine Rite of Passage. But none of them give you any real answer as to why any of it works. I have no interest in tricks and masks. What I want is something far more attractive, far more powerful. Instead of just leaving you with a bunch of tricks, I want you to understand what’s happening beneath the surface. To begin, we’re going to swim down, far below the surface level where other teachers talk about conversations skills, to the very bottom of this vast, mysterious ocean. Once you understand this, with everything we teach you from that moment onwards, no matter how trivial, you will see how it is connected, to the deepest roots of masculine/feminine attraction.