One Key To Becoming Attractive To Women

We can all relate to feeling lost, weak and fragile when we lack an objective to march towards. It is the reason we love war films. It feels like a fire blazing inside us. It is the energy that takes us to the gym, lifts the heavy weights, pushing through the pain. Right now as I write this, I’m listening to epic movie soundtracks in the background and feeling that fire inside me, energising and driving my creative writing. It is the force of ambition and forward movement. Aggressiveness is one the Warrior’s primary characteristics. That weakness is our disconnection from our Warrior, who needs a goal to fight for, like a Magician needs a problem to solve or something to create. One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and interactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. We truly live in a time of soft Men. While those are virtues, without the strength of the Warrior none of those virtues are actually respected by women. A man operating from his Warrior in a mature, healthy way is highly attractive to women.

Maybe Someday

The Warrior is the archetype that serves and protects all of the other archetypes. Without the Warrior a man just becomes a doormat to other people’s needs and desires. The reason women are attracted to strong men who stand up for their own opinions and can’t be manipulated or corrupted by them is because this demonstrates the presence of his inner Warrior. Here is an idea that might seem crazy, but when you think about it from the perspective of the feminine energy, which is attracted to the Warrior, it makes surprising sense. The more attractive you seem to her, the more she will attempt to obliterate you. When, and only when, she is completely satisfied that she cannot destroy you, will she melt into her femininity and surrender to you completely. One key to becoming attractive to women, therefore, is to learn how to be unbreakable in their presence. The reason they act bratty or bitchy, the reason they start seemingly causeless arguments with their man, is because they want to feel your Warrior. When a woman does this, she is looking for her Shiva. The most beautiful, feminine woman in the world try to destroy all the men she comes across in her life. The feminine craves the masculine, and she’ll do the simplest thing she can do to find it. Like a wave seeking to experience the cliff she will crash up against the masculine to experience the joy of being unable to move it.

Taking The Trouble

Your Warrior essence is that in you which can’t be changed, has never changed, and will never change. It’s your rock, your stillness, the singularity deep inside you. This is your Warrior. In this way of looking at the Warrior’s attraction power, it is all about how you react to a woman. By not backing down. By not yielding to challenge. This is in response to a woman’s natural attempt to break you. This powerful truth flies in the face of the way most men think about women and why they do what they do. Now we’ve established this, we can’t just be passive and wait for a woman to attack. We can also actively demonstrate the presence of our Warrior in everyday situations with women by actively assuming an oppositional role. We call it the playful opposition. Playfully disagree with her.

Deadly Sins

Actively challenge her ideas and decisions. Try to change. Even if you actually agree with and like everything she’s saying, you have to decide to assume the oppositional role if you’re going to demonstrate the presence of your Warrior. I remember when I first started getting success approaching women on the streets of London. None of the women I really liked were interested. Either I got their number and they never replied back to me, or they would make their excuses why they couldn’t give me their number. I consistently could only ever get success with women that I didn’t like too much. I had already worked out that women were attracted by challenge and objection, but it wasn’t until the creation of the Red Knight Model that I could explain the psychological underpinnings of it. All the woman experiences is, for lack of a better way, Dick? Hey, do you want some dick? Want some dick now? from all directions. The hotter she is, the more dick she’s presented with from all directions. And those dicks will say and do anything to get inside her. She craves some backbone. Someone to tell her, in effect, No, you can’t have this dick. What a unique experience for a hot woman. Another time I was teaching a guy in New York, he had overcome his fear of the initial approach, but every single woman he talked to always started making their excuses to leave after just a minute or two. No matter how funny he was, how much interest he took in her and her life, or how charismatic he came across, all the women seemed to want to get away. When guys get to this stage we always teach them to start engaging their Warrior archetype and to start challenging women so they can feel this powerful archetype within them, but this student was finding it especially difficult to break out of his nice guy personality that he had spent his whole life being validated for. But every time I would suggest he challenge, he would only give it 10%. If he did manage to challenge a woman, he would immediately break the tension by either laughing, or telling her he was only joking. Eventually, he reached what I call Reality Point. As he sat on the crowded streets of New York, staring at the ground fighting to hold back tears, I sat down with him and told him something that finally made something click. Cue slowly building rocky style motivation music.