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on February 05, 2022

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Remember that men connect the most through actions. For the women, it is obvious that you love connection or bond and you want to connect with your partner. But if you want that to happen, you may also want to learn something about how to read the actions of your man in a way. So you need to be watchful of your partner’s body language during any conversation. So if you are a woman and you are looking to connect with your man, you have to connect with him through actions because that is the way he understands it. You have to start thinking more like a man to get your guy talking more like a woman. Men should also understand how their woman communicates. When your woman begins a discussion about her feelings, you should not display a lack of interest, otherwise, she will feel rejected immediately. You need to acknowledge that women connect the most through talking. As a man, if you want more affection from and connection with your woman, you have to start thinking more like a woman. Make her feel secure with you. Make her trust you so much that she can confide in you freely with her thoughts and feelings.

Much More Than Can Be Said

Much More Than Can Be Said

What you most times have to do is listen to your woman and be there when she tries to reach out to you. When couples begin to understand these facts and apply them to their communication and relationships, things will also begin to get better for them and their love lives. So we have been talking about communication in relationship between partners who are living together or partners who can easily see each other and are always around. But, what about communication in relationship between partners who live far apart, perhaps partners who live in different districts, in different cities, or in different countries? Communication tends to be difficult even when we are in a relationship with someone who is around us, how much more difficult do you think it could be when we are in a relationship with someone who lives in another part of the world? This is what we are going to consider next. Then, you should know that you are not alone. A lot of people believe that long distance relationship does not work out. Well, No one says it is going to be easy, and the fact that there is a distance between you and your partner means that a lot of things could be unrealizable or at least, unreachable. For example, there are times that you would feel sad or lonely. To keep your love alive and your relationship going on well, there are a few things you have to do. Before we consider the key points to a successful long distance relationship, let us first consider a few problems and distorted thoughts that are associated with long distance relationships. The real challenge that people who are in long distance relationship usually have to battle with is the time in between them. Because there is a distance putting you and your partner apart, you decide to send a Twitter or Whatsapp message and expect they would respond as soon as they come online and see the message.

Goodbye To Innocence

That’s not so much a problem for you. Your partner has been online several times since you sent the message, yet they haven’t replied. That gets you thinking, and since you cannot just stroll or even drive over, your mind begins to run free and making one assumption after another. So the distance that sets both of you apart and the fact that you just can’t drive over to talk only make those feelings worse. You are familiar with those spiral feelings, are you not? If you find yourself in the kind of situation described above, you may be tempted to reach distorted conclusions. These often constitute problems in long distance relationships. In the example described above, if your partner fails to respond to your message in time or does not call you at a time that you have both discussed, you might conclude that they must have found love with someone else wherever they are. This is a dangerous assumption since it may not always be true. We are in effect saying that our partner is unfaithful. If we think that way, it is easy and very possible to find information within us that will feed our assumption, and when we do, we might find evidence in every corner of our heart, evidence that would help only to close the gap in our mind. Maybe you have an understanding that you and your partner will meet about once a year. And this year, you have agreed it is going to be August.

Give Rest To The Problems Weighing You Down

In time, your partner or spouse calls to inform you that the earlier agreement would no longer be attainable and suggests that you should meet at another time of the year. But you decide that if your partner is now unwilling to make August work out for the both of you, then you too are no longer willing to catch up with them any other time of the year. You are not willing to accept or even make adjustments to allow for a change. So, if it is not now, then it is never. Sometimes you would feel that your communication with your partner in a different part of the world is not really flowing well, or at least, is not what you wanted, you become low and anxious and then you begin to reason that something is fishy. You just got off the phone with your partner after an argument in which you feel that you have been misunderstood, and as such your earlier thought must be true. This is a damaging emotional trap that is only capable of creating negative relationships. What can you do to manage these problems? First, you have to recognize the trap and see it as a downward spiral of negative thoughts.

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