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The Privilege Of Teaching Men

on February 18, 2022

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To start your journey, you need to connect with your partner in the deepest way you have ever done in your life. I have had the privilege of teaching men of all creeds, sizes, abilities, and levels. I’ve taught ugly guys and guys, short guys and tall guys, quiet guys and loud guys. I’ve taught men who dressed like supermodels, I’ve taught guys who dressed like tramps. I’ve taught bald guys and hairy guys, confident guys and awkward guys, funny guys and robotic guys. Whatever you think is your unique flaw, I’ve watched men overcome it. Whatever the unique thing you have that you think makes you unattractive, I’ve seen guys overcome it. I mean I have taught men, live, on the streets of the major cities of the world, and worked closely with them, pushing them beyond what they thought was possible for themselves. Imagine approaching an intimidatingly attractive woman, but instead of feeling utterly clueless, you have a precise framework to work with, and not only that, you are wearing an earpiece so you can hear me give suggestions to you during your conversation if you start to draw blanks and are unsure how to proceed. Then when you return to me, I explain to you, in detail, exactly what you did well, and what you could have done better, which you then take into your very next interaction, moments later. Then at the end of the day, we covertly film some of your interactions with women, then go back to our apartment and break down, in our video analysis session, your approaches so you can see what you look like from the outside. Imagine doing that for two entire days, which is what my weekend courses force you to do! Now imagine doing that every day for a week, which is what my residential courses force you to do! This seven step process is the journey I take my private students on, step by step, from shy, nervous and unattractive, to confident, fearless and captivating.

Holding Back The Years

Holding Back The Years

Beyond working with me in person, the seven steps I am about to give you are the seven steps you need to work through to become the kind of man that can approach, engage, and attract any woman you choose. Can you get every woman? I have watched hundreds of men climb this ladder, and I have watched many stumble and fall when they skip any of the steps. The Red Knight Road is a journey through your masculine archetypes. The Road takes women on this journey, step by step, and as you progress and grow competent with each stage, your experience with each archetype deepens. By the time you get to the seventh stage, you will have full expression of your masculine archetypes around women, and will have a power that few men possess. How you progress on the Red Knight Road will depend on your motivation, and the natural strengths and weaknesses afforded to you by your attractive personality type, with some types excelling and struggling at different stages. More important than that, though, is your commitment to the brutal truth. Unless you’re willing to face the reality of how women really see you, no matter how crushing, you will be doomed to mediocrity. Truth then, is where the Road begins. The guardian of the Red Knight Road is called Truth. He stands at the gates, striking fear into the hearts of weak men who happen to stray too close, sending them running in the other direction. Some men, though, aren’t scared by Truth.

Transformative Contrasts

They approach, anxious with what lay ahead, and sad knowing what they leave behind, but march through the gates regardless. We all feel deep down that we are good, that we deserve to be happy, and to have our desires fulfilled. When that doesn’t happen, when the world seems to conspire against us, the easiest way to cope is to surrender to victimhood, and denounce the world as unjust, unfair and evil. By doing so, we rationalise how a good person like us can experience the poor results in our lives, and despite whatever bad situation we find ourself in, we feel an odd, masochistic comfort in the knowledge that we are the good hero in such a tragic story. In our victimhood, we find a way to transform the inferiority the world has bestowed upon us, into superiority. Such is the power of delusion. The truth is that we all live life through a kind of virtual reality. We all live in different worlds, shaped by our individual belief systems that have been built over a lifetime, providing unique lenses that shape the world we experience in different ways. We see evidence of this all around us, from our closest friends disagreeing, to global leaders threatening war. This single insight calls to you. It says ‘hey, things you currently believe could be wrong.’ Things about you, things about women, things about the world.

Adjusting Tirelessly

The only way to know for sure how true our realities are, is to test them vigorously and mercilessly. Upon close scrutiny you may discover that there are things you currently believe about yourself that are only true because you were told so by a family member, or a bully at school, or a movie character. If we look closely, we may find that the only thing that really makes it true, is because we believe it. And because we believe it, we reinforce it with our actions, which are in turn reinforced with the world’s response. You may even discover that the real truth is that you can be whoever you decide to be. You may learn the truth that you are the master of your destiny, the creator of your world, and if you decide that the beliefs you have been living under haven’t been serving you, that you can raise the building to the ground and rebuild it from scratch. The archetype of truth is the Lover in you.

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