Trust Me When I Say That I Know The Pain

Imagine being surrounded by a crowd of adoring fans, all calling out their undying love for you. Beautiful women are surrounded by men who are dazzled by the bright lights of their exteriors. These men believe a woman’s masterpiece is already on display at the front of the gallery, but she knows better. The naked woman’s body is a portion of eternity too great for the eye of man. The doors were closed, locked. Women either liked you or they didn’t and, based on my experience, the cool and tough kids were the ones that women desired. For me, this mainly centred around computers. Trust me when I say that I know the pain, the frustration, the ache deep in your chest whenever you see an attractive woman walk past. You watch her glide by like a beggar watches a Ferrari. And when you believe something is impossible, you don’t even try. This is when an animal decides that it is powerless to prevent or stop unpleasant stimuli and stops attempting to escape it, even when opportunities to do so are later presented. In the first part, he had three groups of dogs, harnessed in separate enclosed areas.

Keep On Growing

Group one was a control group, while the dogs in group two were paired up with corresponding dogs in group three, so each dog in group three would experience the same thing as the dog in group two that it was paired with. The dogs in group two had access to a lever which, when triggered, stopped the shocks for the dog who had triggerd it and the dog it was paired with in group three. The dogs in group three, however, had no way of stopping the shocks themselves. During the first part of the experiment, the dog from group two worked out how to stop the shocks using the lever and, once learned, they always performed this action immediately upon being shocked. From the perspective of the dogs in group three, however, the shocks seemed to start and stop at random. They had absolutely no control over what was happening to them. After a while, when the shocks came, the dogs in group three just lay down and whimpered. The dogs in group two, on the other hand, learned to press the lever and alleviate the shocks. During the second part of the experiment, the same group of dogs were housed in three separate enclosures like before. This time, the dogs could escape the electric shocks by jumping over a low partition into a different area of the enclosure. When shocked, the dogs from groups one and two quickly learned to jump over the partition. Most of the dogs from group three, however, just laid down and whimpered through the shocks as they had in the previous experiment.

Plow Right Ahead

They had learned that there was nothing they could do to stop the pain. This is exactly why most men think there’s nothing they can do to attract women. You’ve gathered the evidence, and you know that women just aren’t interested in you. It sucks, but this is just the way it is. Why waste emotion and energy on something that’s completely out of your control, right? Trust me, I had my evidence. Growing up, women had told me that they weren’t interested in ginger guys. Any time I expressed interest in an attractive woman−a woman who I felt was out of my league−she rejected me. So naturally, understandably, I gave up. If you believe you are fundamentally unattractive to women, you will have your story that justifies it. Maybe you’re too short, or too tall. You’re too fat, or too skinny. You’re a ginger, you’re balding.

Do Yourself A Favor

You’re too young, or too old. Your voice sounds funny. You’re too pale, or too dark. You look nothing like the men on the cover of fashion magazines. I could go on and on. We all have our story. Mine was my hair colour, my skinny body, the sound of my voice and apparent lack of social skills. Yours is whatever yours may be. I felt my story deep in my gut, and I brought it into every interaction I had with beautiful women. Like you, I never used to be able to attract women. Here’s the thing, and I want you to read this very carefully. Just like the dogs in group three of that experiment, you have been brainwashed. You think you are unattractive to women because of some flaw, and every rejection is taken as further evidence for the validity of your story. The story we tell ourselves dictates the reality we exist in, and the reality we exist in creates behavior that perpetuates the story. Belief creates behavior, which creates belief, which creates behavior. All you see is your story and the evidence that makes it seem real. Well, I’m here to break the cycle. I’m pulling you out of this delusion and giving you a whole new perspective on what attraction really is, how it works, and how you’ve been doing things wrong your entire life. You have everything you need to become highly attractive to women. You just don’t know it yet. We know what we are, but not what we may be. How would that make you feel about yourself? Now take those fans away and replace them with screaming haters, all wishing death upon you. How would you feel about yourself then? Would you even be the same person? You see, who you are, or at least that feeling of who you are at this very moment, is a relationship between you and your environment. You think you exist alone, independent of your environment, but that isn’t true. You feel confident and worthy of the attention, and all of a sudden your social skills improve. What do you conclude from your change in state? You conclude it wasn’t real, that your prior unconfident state is the real you. The other state was just an anomaly, a trick, a lie.